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Photograph: Hillary Peralta/ Unsplash
Photograph: Hillary Peralta/ Unsplash

Why should you listen to me?

When so often being older 

I am invisible. 

And this I know to be true:

When others talk to our adult children 

Over my head I somehow 

Feel diminished.

 

Why should you listen to me?

In the seventh stage of life

Sans teeth sans eyes 

Sans everything.

And this I know to be true:

So often you see the ageing body 

Not the youthful zest of my mind

 

Why should you listen to me?

When so often I am forgetful 

Of  places I’ve hidden my keys,

The names of old friends. 

But this I know to be true:

I have life stories and wisdom to share

If you don’t seek out 

Will be lost forever.

 

Why should you listen to me?

What would I know about true love

At my age?

But this I know to be true:

Love deepens and becomes 

Less conditional with age.

Relationships have to be worked at 

In every stage of life.

 

Why should you listen to me?

Words like Fragile, vulnerable, dependent

Are used to label and dismiss me.

But this I know to be true:

My life has been a series of new beginnings

The best is yet to be

 

Why should you listen to me? 

This I know to be true:

I come from a long line 

Women of strength, wisdom and integrity,

And You are my Grandaughter who 

Will continue what we have begun

This is why you should listen to me. 

Mary Cunningham

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